Joy and Serendipity

I am interrupting my six month WordPress sabbatical to write about 1-being back in heavenly Saint Jean de Luz and 2—an amazing experience (amazing to me) I had last Saturday.

Sun setting over white caps after a very windy afternoon in Saint Jean de Luz

After being introduced to Saint Jean de Luz a number of summers ago, I have come down for two to four weeks each summer. This summer, I planned a self-imposed writing residency for myself to prepare submissions for a September writing retreat. Two or three months ago, my friend Jane from the Bay Area called to let me know she was hiking in the west of Ireland and would I like to meet up in Dublin at the end of her trip. Yes, I would love to but I had this trip to SJdeL planned, bought train tickets, paid for my rental. What did she think of coming to SJdeL? She had been here on my recommendation with her husband last summer and loved it. Needing a couple of days to figure it out, she made it happen. RyanAir from Dublin to Biarritz, taxi to SJdeL, stay 4 nights and then make the reverse trip in order to fly back to SFO. BUT….she needed to come on the 22nd and I had tickets for the 24th. I changed my train reservation and we have just spent four wonderful, heavenly days here in SJdeL. 

Looking at La Grande Plage from the Quai leading up to Saint Barbe

For me, it turned out to be a vacation before the writing started. I’ve been battling one thing after another health wise, none serious but all very annoying: vertigo, another carpal tunnel surgery that wanted to take its sweet time healing, etc. I slept in every morning, ate a leisurely breakfast, and then we walked the boardwalk to the marina, bought food at the marché, and shopped! I would leave Jane at the beach on our way back, and she swam while I came back to do I don’t know what. Jane stayed at a wonderful hotel at the top of the cliffs called La Réserve. A terrace extended off her bedroom and offered a view of the Atlantic Ocean that mesmerised. We’d make our dinner each evening and talk our way late into the night. Then walk to Saint Barbe and down the hill headed to my apartment. She’d leave me at the turn-off away from the beach. 

Sunset June 25, 2025

Jane and I have known each other for fifty years. We’ve gotten to be better friends as we’ve grown older and now, no matter the last time we were together, we fall into talking as if we’d been together a week ago. It’s very precious – the friendship with her and also with her husband. They have taught me a lot about thoughtfulness, open heartedness, curiosity about others just by living their lives, being examples of a life well lived.

Sharing SJdeL, one of my favorite places in the world, with Jane over these past four days has been so delightful—in the full sense of the word: full of delights. One evening as she walked back to La Réserve, she witnessed a lightning storm and took a video:

I had heard the thunder and went out on my little balcony to watch the sky explode with light. I don’t remember ever seeing such a sight. The next day after a lovely sunny morning, the wind picked up. Wind surfers gathered on the beach at the edge of the water raring to go. I was headed up to La Réserve and took this video of the sails flying by. If you turn the sound on, you can hear how loud the wind was roaring.

I’m now putting off feeling the sadness of her departure by writing about the last four days. 

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Last Saturday, my last day in Paris before leaving on this trip, I attended a poetry literature gathering. Our prof, Heather, had put together a number of poems for us to read and talk about. The first was Robert Frost The Road Less Traveled. Chatterbox that I am, I announced that Robert Frost had been the commencement speaker at my school, Baldwin School for Girls, when I was in 7th grade. The woman seated to my left, jumped and asked “What school did you say?” 

Baldwin School for Girls” I responded. 

“I graduated 1965,” she said. 

I told her that if I had stayed I also would have graduated 1965. “Did you know KV?” I asked. 

“Yes, she is a good friend of mine.”

By this time, it felt a bit Twilight Zone. In an apartment in the 15th arrondissement in Paris, France, what are the chances of sitting next to someone I probably knew but not well sixty-six years ago. When the salon had ended, we ran more names by each other. She knew them all. By the time I went to bed, that night, she had written emails to a number of them cc’ing me telling them what happened.

I had been writing a story that included skating in the afternoon when I attended Baldwin. I had been thinking of KV as she had looked then. A dreamy memory, more black and white than color. Monday morning, she wrote saying that she well remembered me. And my sister. And our thick hair—mine brunette, P’s red. 

There is something wonderful about accidents like these happening. I have unpleasant memories of being twelve, thirteen, and fourteen, actually most of my teens were not great. Here come witnesses to tell me if my memory is distorted or maybe just maybe, those times were not quite what I thought them to be. KV said she “always had fun when we got together.” I don’t think of myself as a fun person back then. It’s possible I still have some things to learn.

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My intention was to not write here until the end of the Writing Retreat in September. Time just didn’t allow for everything I wanted to do. Unless something jumps up and hits me in the face, I will stick to that resolution.

Thank you for reading and being there. Your support of my writing means the world to me.

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Sara

Saint Jean de Luz, Pays Basque

I watched the sun slowly fall into the ocean, her long orange reflection on the silvery blue water pulling back until there was no more orange disc, only a horizon of pinks, purples, and deep blues scattered like toffs of cotton candy over the darkening orange sky.

Sunset behind Saint Barb

Every evening was similar in Saint Jean de Luz, a small fishing village in the southwest of France, ten miles from the Spanish border. We had come on vacation for two weeks and been given perfect weather. It was the beginning of July. School vacations had not yet started in France so, though the boardwalk and beaches had plenty of people, it was still easy to navigate one’s way from one end of the boardwalk to the other. The dense crowds would arrive starting Quattorze Juillet.

The bay of Saint Jean de Luz with the Pyrénées in the background

To some, Saint Jean de Luz is a resort beach town not just a fishing village. The Pyrénées is a majestic blue-grey backdrop that is a constant reminder of the geography between France and Spain. Sea walls have been built at the mouth of the Baie of Saint Jean to protect the town from the devastating floods that have wiped out the entire place several times. The Baie is a large U with one tip being the Chapel of Saint Barb situated on a cliff that is the beginning of the twenty-five-mile trail that goes north in the direction of Biarritz. The other tip is the small town of Socoa with its ancient fort and the route that takes one to Hendaye and then into Spain. The bottom of the U is La Pergola, a casino and boardwalk, built in the 1920s. Behind the boardwalk is the central village with its many boutiques, and the Port of Saint Jean where the fisherman board boats to fish for tuna, trout, and mackerel at one or two o’clock every morning, returning around 4 am with fresh fish for me to buy at Les Halles, the covered market in the center of the Port Area.

View of the bay from Saint Barb, Socoa is at the far end of the Bay

Every morning, my friend, Fatiha, and I, either together or separately, walked from our rented apartment, up to the Sentier (the cliff trail), turned left toward Saint Barb, and then were greeted by the vast expanse of the Atlantic Ocean. For an American, raised with the certainty that the Atlantic ocean was and always would be the East Coast, each time I saw the ocean, I would shake my head to remember that this is the same Atlantic Ocean, the same body of water, that washes up on Massachusetts and New York. We’d follow a new path, with the ocean on our right, and the beaches below us, that made its way down the pristine grass of Saint Barb until we found ourselves on the far end of the promenade. We’d head towards La Pergola, watching the beach boys setting up the little “rooms” that people could rent to get out of the sun and rest in a lounge chair. At La Pergola, we’d turn right and wander the boardwalk full of touristy attractions, selling striped marine T-shirts, linen dresses and pants, and espadrilles, the shoes that the farmers wear daily whether in the field or climbing in the Pyrenees. We’d eventually reach the end of the beach and the end of the boardwalk, walk down some stairs, and turning backward, walk past the Port harbor with her colorful boats. We’d arrive at Les Halles.

Places people can rent to escape the sun.

Tuesdays and Saturdays (and Sundays during July and August) an outdoor marché surrounds Les Halles on all sides. There is an abundance of fruit and vegetables. Cheese made from goat’s milk is sold everywhere and to get cow’s milk cheese, one has to go inside the covered market. Each morning, we left with fresh fish for our dinner and an accompanying veggie to cook, and all our salad makings. 

Beach

Then we’d make our way to rue Gambetta, the pedestrian street that goes south to north and has boutiques on each side as far as one can see. Another favorite for the tourist, me! is the colorful linens in the stripes of Pays Basque colors. Table cloths, napkins, washcloths, towels, cooking gloves, place settings, and bed linens. It’s a plethora of greens and reds and cream colors. I found it all so beautiful, I wanted to take everything home with me.

Port of Saint Jean de Luz

At the end of Gambetta, we found ourselves at the intersection with Boulevard Thiers. We would normally turn left there to head home. However, if we walked straight, crossing Thiers, we’d come to Monoprix and Carrefour. Carrefour has everything you can’t get at the Marché. And the Monoprix?…. Well, it happened to be the summer sales in France and Monoprix has some of the best clothes at the best prices, especially during the sales. It was irresistible not to go in there every couple of days and see what new things had been put on sale. I had to purchase a new over-the-shoulder bag to get all my purchases home to Paris!

Fatiha and I did this walk two or three times a day. For Fatiha, it included an afternoon at the beach, pulling out her blanket made of straw, a cloth to go on top, her earphones, and music on her iphone. I usually joined her for an hour or two. When the tide was out, we would splash around in the saltwater, swimming out towards the seawalls but always able to put our feet on the bottom. I spent my afternoons on schoolwork in the apartment. In the evening, I loved to walk down to the port where there was music from 9:30pm to 11:30pm in the large Rotonda. Everyone came out. Kids bought bags of confetti, threw it up in the air, and danced. They threw it on strangers’ heads who usually laughed. Couples danced old 50s swing to the music. Every night was something different. My favorite evening was a group playing Bob Dylan songs. I felt as if I was 25 years old and danced as I would have at a concert long ago. It all came back so easily. I thanked the lead singer who turned about to be British and lived in France, so he could sing the songs in English and in French. 

Saint Jean at night

We were there for Quattorze Juillet. It didn’t get dark till late and fireworks wouldn’t start until 11 pm. So we walked, taking photos of the clouds reflecting all the colors of the sunset, and found places to sit on a wall of the Promenade. Promptly at 11 pm, fireworks started shooting skyward above Socoa. We were too far away to appreciate them. Then at 11:15 pm, the fireworks started at Saint Barb. We were right under them. It was a spectacular show—not the Eiffel Tower show that I got to watch last year—but here I was in a sun dress, sitting on a wall with hundreds of other people. We had just witnessed yet another stunning sunset, the air warm, the laughter all around me (I never once heard a harsh word coming from anyone the entire time I was there), watching fireworks that hissed and sizzled and sighed and popped in all the Pays Basque colors and I thought “It doesn’t get better than this.”

Fireworks from Socoa
Fireworks from Saint Barb

We were in Saint Jean de Luz for two weeks. It passed in a flash. This small fishing village is fifteen minutes south of Biarritz. Biarritz has bling, glamour, very expensive hotels and restaurants and attracts the wealthiest of the rich. Saint Jean is simple. I didn’t see any glitz, nothing flashy. Even the popular brand stores were not there. Every person we met was friendly and helpful if help was needed. 

Promenade along the beach. Saint Barb in the distance on the left.

Ah if only summer would last and last.

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Sara